No Place Like Home

It’s true; there really is no place like home.  When you feel your home is in two different places, however, it gets a little tricky.  Liam and I are safely back to the states after a fantastic week in Ireland, where I wore a sweater or sweatshirt for the entire week.  IN AUGUST!  It was brilliant.  We missed the cats and our lovely little house, but there is no denying that Ireland is truly a second home to us.  Having our heart torn between the two countries isn’t easy, but we’ll re-learn how to live without the lovely Eire until the next glorious trip.

I’d like to thank you all for dropping by to check out the guest post Sarah contributed this past week.  It’s lovely to know that Side Effects is already reaching people.  Your warm reception to her words was very heartening, as well.

As you might guess, there are probably several blogs’ worth of stories to tell from Ireland, and I may someday get a chance to write them all down.  For now, I’ll share some of my favorite photos from the trip.  Perhaps they’ll have you all running to update your passports and buy tickets to the Emerald Isle.  Enjoy!


For Some Reason, Jen Left Me in Charge

Hi all!  It’s Sarah, checking in since Jen is off enjoying Ireland at the moment.  Sadly I have no funny lawn care stories or anything that will be nearly as entertaining as something Jen would post but she did give me permission to write a guest blog so I’m taking the opportunity to share how I really feel about Side Effects.  Check it out below.  Jen will be back in the US soon enough but this is not the last you’ll see of me.  I’ve been promised one more guest blog so I’ll be back in a month or so with what will be the best guest blog of all time.  Thanks to Jen for letting me post this and I hope you’re having a fabulous trip!  We miss you.    

 

I’ve always thought it was funny that we never hesitate advising someone to see a doctor and take medication for their diabetes or their high cholesterol or heart disease.  And yet with mental illness, there is a stigma and a shame attached to taking medication, to talking about the disease, to seeking help.  And that’s exactly why so many people who struggle with mental illness feel isolated and alone, as if they have nowhere to turn for help and no one to talk to.  In Jen’s book, Side Effects, the main character, Isaac, feels all of these emotions and more as he struggles through the ups and downs of high school and first love while also trying to handle his anxiety disorder.

 

As someone with a background in social work, I see the same issues Jen writes about in Side Effects every single day.  What struck me as I read the book was the honest and yet hopeful way in which Jen writes about anxiety disorder.  Rather than exploiting the illness, Jen uses a light touch to portray not only Isaac’s struggle but also his triumphs.  Side Effects is an entertaining story but is also a great tool in regard to understanding what it’s like for many people who experience anxiety disorders.   Parents, teenagers, professionals, teachers, and many others who may interact with youth similar to Isaac will find Side Effects informative and helpful.  Not only does the book provide some insight into what an anxiety disorder is like, readers will also find themselves cheering Isaac on as he finds his way and falling a little in love with Grace, just like Isaac, in the process.  And most importantly, anyone who has been in Isaac’s position will take great comfort in knowing they are not alone and that finally someone has taken the time, energy, and love to write about their pain in a very real way.

 

I was amazed and touched by the way Jen managed to combine the good and the bad of anxiety disorders throughout Side Effects while creating characters that you truly come to know and love.  It’s a sensitive issue dealt with the respect and the care it deserves throughout the novel which is, sadly, quite rare.  Side Effects speaks not only to Jen’s talent as a writer but also her general spirit and overall character.  It takes someone who is empathetic and kind to write about anxiety disorder in the manner that Jen does.   I’m lucky enough to know that Jen is all of these things and more and reading her novel only confirms that Jen is not only a talented writer but an incredible human being.

In Good Hands

As many of you already know, I’m currently on my way to Ireland. Liam’s sister lives in Australia, and she’s home in Ireland for the first time in three years. There was no way we could pass up the chance to see her.

Sarah Witte will be taking care of the blog and may even post a guest blog or two. I hope you’ll make her feel welcome. When I get the chance, I’ll check in from Ireland to see how everyone is doing. Until I return, I wish you all well. I really will miss you!

Sneak Peek at Soundtrack

When we reached the gymnasium, I did exactly what I said I wasn’t going to do–sprawled out on the bottom row of bleachers and batted my eyes like a fangirl.  Okay.  Not exactly.  I did sit on the first row, but my posture was decidedly rigid.

He disappeared into the locker room and returned a moment later with two basketballs.  When he saw me locked tightly onto the seat, he smirked.

“Come on, Honeycutt.  Show me what you can do!”

Two times in a matter of minutes, he surprised me by knowing my name–not just my first name, but my nickname and last name, too.  That thought was crowding into my mind, which had frozen at the sight of his smirk.  No one deserved to look that good while smirking.

When I still didn’t move, he shoved the ball into my stomach, just as he would have with one of his teammates.  I stared at it, running my fingers over the pebbled texture for a moment, before lifting my eyes to his incredulously.

“You can’t be serious.  I can’t even bounce it.”

Travis snorted out a laugh and demonstrated the exact bounce that I feared.  “It’s called ‘dribbling’.  First lesson.”

At his cocky tone, I stood and gave him my own smirk.  “Dribbling sounds like something a baby does.  I’m just going to call it bouncing, if you don’t mind.”

“Whatever, Bex.  Just bounce the ball.  It’s not hard.  All you have to do is drop it; it’ll bounce on its own.”

Well, that didn’t sound too hard at all.  I held the ball out and dropped it, prepared to catch it when it came back to me.  Instead of hitting the polished floor with the rubbery ping that Travis’s ball made, it hit the toe of my shoe and rolled away, looking about as dejected as I felt.

To his credit, he didn’t laugh.  Instead, he handed me his ball and ran after the one I’d dropped.

“Okay, so there’s a bit more to it than that,” he admitted when he returned.  “Here, I’ll show you.”

He set his ball down gently and then stepped behind me.  I started to face him, but he stopped me with a gentle hand to my shoulder.  What happened after that felt so surreal that I had to convince myself for days that it had actually happened.  Without hesitation, Travis moved closer until he was completely flush with my back.  My breath caught when I felt him bend his knees a bit behind me, and then he nudged my right foot forward with his.  His knee pressed into the back of mine, causing me to adopt a stance similar to his, but I knew I wasn’t quite as graceful.  I leaned forward a bit, mostly to escape the heat of his body, but he pulled me right back to him.

“Hold still for a second,” he muttered.

I couldn’t breathe.  Every inch of him was molded to me as he perfected my stance.  Even with him crouching behind me, I was overwhelmed by the size of him.   Slowly, he reached out and ran his right hand along my arm until he reached my wrist.  It was a feeling that I never wanted to forget–not for the rest of my life.  I closed my eyes and breathed in, surrounded by him, his warmth, his smell… Goosebumps prickled in his wake, and I fought off a shudder.

“There.”  Satisfaction oozed from him as he stepped away and admired his work.  “Stand like that as you dribble–”

“Bounce,” I interrupted.

He bit back a smile and rolled his eyes.  “Bounce.  Fine.  You won’t hit your feet that way.”

Soundtrack cover shoot with Katie Marcario and Blake Mundell